This week I have taken a few days off to spend the time with my lovely children. Tak de la gi mana sangat pun. We had fun chilling out at a river call Sungai Chilling at Kuala Kubu Bharu. Spent time with their cousins splashing at swimming pool, watching horror movies together and endless muching and eating.
At times bila dah lama sangat cuti tetiba rasa lemau nak start kerja balik. Or ada kalanya bila apa yang kita usahakan tidak memberi hasil yang kita harapkan, then kita rasa sangat down dan hilang semangat. At this point what we need is something to perk us up again.
Tipulah kalau saya kata saya tak pernah melalui saat-saat frust dan down especially masa awal-awal jadi Unit Trust Consultant. Kekadang menangis beria-ia. Tapi one thing about me, rasa down ni tak lama. paling lama sehari dua. Selalunya I will snap myself out from this pitiful state and motivate myself again.
So how does one motivate oneself? There are many ways actually.
1) Read books. Bukan buku cinta ye. Buku motivasi. In my blog ni, I have list down recommended readings in one of my page. Pada orang yang suka membaca, banyak sangat-sangat buku motivasi or self help berada di toko toko buku ( wah klasik tul bahasa ni). Be it in BM or English.
2) Talk to someone BUT...be careful to choose only positive minded people. Janganlah bercerita pada mereka yang tidak faham your needs to chase your dreams. There are people out there who is more willing to pull you down that to help you. Why? because they don't have the courage to pursue their dreams and they want you to fail to prove that they are making the right decision. Pleaseeeee stay away from people yang cam gini.
3) Google lah dalam internet and look for articles related to your problem. Listen to audio or watch you tube about successful people, about how to motivate yourself. At least dengar dlm 5 - 10 minit pun mampu jugak buat kita bersemangat balik.
4) If you have Goal board or vision board, look at them. Ingat balik kenapa kita buat decision to become Unit Trust Consultant. Apart from your goal board, there is your goal book. That is why, writing down goals is very important. Cuba kaji balik apa yang kita nak. Sebab masa kita pen down our goals tu, we were very excited betul tak? We visualised those dreams then with enthusiasm. So look at them back and feel the enthusiasm again.
For those yang belum jadi Unit Trust Consultant, cuba think where will you be 5 years from now. Write down one by one the things your heart desire. Even if you have doubts achievingthem, that is okay. All great people dream big dreams with no idea how to start. But the desire, somehow finds its path.
5) Semua pun mesti ada Facebook kannnnnnn? Cari la motivational page and click "like". Then everyday bila kita dok scroll FB kita, akan ada motivational quotes on our newsfeed. This is one thing yang i suka buat. Bila tengok quote-quote yang best, I saved them in my phone. Bila tengah down I akan tengok balik kata-kata semangat ni. Even make them my Iphone screen lock.
6) Ni sepatutnya jadi yang paling utama. Sebagai orang islam, bacalah al quran sebab ia adalah penenang jiwa. Bukan la saya letak dia last point maksudnya inilah last resort. NO. Bila kita dalam keadaan yang sangat stress, membaca al quran mampu memberi ketenangan. Solatlah dan mohon pada Allah dengan penuh khusyuk agar yang Maha BerKuasa memberikan kita hati yang tenang untuk mencari rezeki.
Banyak lagi sebenarnya cara nak motivasi diri tapi setakat ini cukuplah apa yang saya nukilkan hari ini. So janganlah risau kalau kita rasa cam hilang semangat. The enthusiasm can be found again.
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